Tradition 11
Short form
Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio and films.
Long form
Our relations with the general public should be characterised by personal anonymity. We think A.A. should avoid sensational advertising. Our names and pictures as A.A. members ought not be broadcast, filmed, or publicly printed. Our public relations should be guided by the principle of attraction rather than promotion. There is never need to praise ourselves. We feel it better that our friends recommend us.
Excerpt from the Twelve Steps & Twelve Traditions
Without its legions of well-wishers, A.A. could never have grown as it has. Throughout the world, immense and favorable publicity of every description has been the principal means of bringing alcoholics into our Fellowship. In A.A. offices, clubs, and homes, telephones ring constantly. One voice says, “I read a piece in the newspapers . . .”; another, “We heard a radio program . . .”; and still another, “We saw a moving picture . . .” or “We saw something about A.A. on television. . . .” It is no exaggeration to say that half of A.A.'s membership has been led to us through channels like these.
The inquiring voices are not all alcoholics or their families. Doctors read medical papers about Alcoholics Anonymous and call for more information. Clergymen see articles in their church journals and also make inquiries. Employers learn that great corporations have set their approval upon us, and wish to discover what can be done about alcoholism in their own firms.
Therefore, a great responsibility fell upon us to develop the best possible public relations policy for Alcoholics Anonymous. Through many painful experiences, we think we have arrived at what that policy ought to be. It is the opposite in many ways of usual promotional practice. We found that we had to rely upon the principle of attraction rather than of promotion.
Let's see how these two contrasting ideas— attraction and promotion— work out. A political party wishes to win an election, so it advertises the virtues of its leadership to draw votes. A worthy charity wants to raise money; forthwith, its letterhead shows the name of every distinguished person whose support can be obtained. Much of the political, economic, and religious life of the world is dependent upon publicized leadership. People who symbolize causes and ideas fill a deep human need. We of A.A. do not question that. But we do have to soberly face the fact that being in the public eye is hazardous, especially for us. By temperament, nearly every one of us had been an irrepressible promoter, and the prospect of a society composed almost entirely of promoters was frightening. Considering this explosive factor, we knew we had to exercise self-restraint.
The way this restraint paid off was startling. It resulted in more favorable publicity of Alcoholics Anonymous than could possibly have been obtained through all the arts and abilities of A.A.'s best press agents. Obviously, A.A. had to be publicized somehow, so we resorted to the idea that it would be far better to let our friends do this for us. Precisely that has happened, to an unbelievable extent. Veteran newsmen, trained doubters that they are, have gone all out to carry A.A.'s message. To them, we are something more than the source of good stories. On almost every newsfront, the men and women of the press have attached themselves to us as friends.
In the beginning, the press could not understand our refusal of all personal publicity. They were genuinely baffled by our insistence upon anonymity. Then they got the point. Here was something rare in the world— a society which said it wished to publicize its principles and its work, but not its individual members. The press was delighted with this attitude. Ever since, these friends have reported A.A. with an enthusiasm which the most ardent members would find hard to match.
There was actually a time when the press of America thought the anonymity of A.A. was better for us than some of our own members did. At one point, about a hundred of our Society were breaking anonymity at the public level. With perfectly good intent, these folks declared that the principle of anonymity was horse-and-buggy stuff, something appropriate to A.A.'s pioneering days. They were sure that A.A. could go faster and farther if it availed itself of modern publicity methods. A.A., they pointed out, included many persons of local, national, or international fame. Provided they were willing— and many were— why shouldn't their membership be publicized, thereby encouraging others to join us? These were plausible arguments, but happily our friends of the writing profession disagreed with them.
The Foundation* wrote letters to practically every news outlet in North America, setting forth our public relations policy of attraction rather than promotion, and emphasizing since that time, editors and rewrite men have repeatedly deleted names and pictures of members from A.A. copy; frequently, they have reminded ambitious individuals of A.A.'s anonymity policy. They have even sacrificed good stories to this end. The force of their cooperation has certainly helped. Only a few A.A. members are left who deliberately break anonymity at the public level.
This, in brief, is the process by which A.A.'s Tradition Eleven was constructed. To us, however, it represents far more than a sound public relations policy. It is more than a denial of self-seeking. This Tradition is a constant and practical reminder that personal ambition has no place in A.A. In it, each member becomes an active guardian of our Fellowship.
*In 1954, the name of the Alcoholic Foundation, Inc., was changed to the General Service Board of Alcoholics Anonymous, Inc., and the Foundation office is now the General Service Office.
Excerpt from The Twelve Traditions Illustrated
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Alcoholics who have recovered through our program are themselves the strongest attraction that AA has. When people are asked what lead them to seek AA help, the answer given most often is: "An AA member." Their chances would have been slim if all of us had remained completely in hiding. But many of us have chosen to tell our friends, neighbours, employers, co-workers, doctors, or spiritual advisers that we are in AA–and when we do so, we are not breaking our anonymity in the meaning of this Tradition.
Suppose a sick alcoholic never has the good fortune to meet an AA. How is such a person going to find us? The search will be difficult if the local group thinks it should be anonymous, too. The Tradition is talking about "personal anonymity," remember? Alcoholics will not be attracted to AA if they don't know that it exists or if they have distorted, unfavourable impressions of its members or its program.
Giving the general public an accurate picture of AA is the chief job of our public information committees. In addition, they often carry the message to certain groups–from police officers to personnel directors–whose work includes contact with active alcoholics.
Information about AA is being offered to the public through all the communications media, in print and over the air. On radio, it's easy to guard members' anonymity, of course. But TV (Not in wide use when the Traditions were written) is another matter. According to a Conference opinion, members are breaking their anonymity when they are identified on TV as AAs and their faces are shown–whether or not their names are given. And yet this medium, with its vast audiences cannot be ignored.
Different techniques have been employed to preserve anonymity on TV: masks; screens; back-lighting that shows AA's only as silhouettes; camera angles showing them only from the back. The "shadow" method diagrammed here is simple, relaxed–and appropriate. For we are not selling personalities–we are explaning AA. Personal anonymity breaks in the public media not only may discourage timid prospects; they may threaten the anonymity-breaker's own sobriety, by violating the spirit of the AA program and Traditions...
Tradition Eleven Discussion Questions
Do I sometimes promote AA so fanatically that I make it seem unattractive?
Do I understand the level of anonymity this tradition suggests? Am I an ‘invisible’ alcoholic?
When in service am I careful to avoid using my name at the level of press, radio and film.
Are public forums on the internet ‘at the level of press’? Do I inadvertently, therefore, compromise the anonymity of others?
Am I ashamed of being a recovered, or recovering, alcoholic?
What would AA be like if we were not guided by the ideas in Tradition Eleven? Where would I be?
Is my AA sobriety attractive enough that a sick drunk would want such a quality for himself?
Thoughts on Tradition Eleven
The first part of this tradition is often misunderstood to mean that AA does no outreach at all. Intergroup meetings can sometimes get quite heated whenever anyone suggests trying a newspaper or online advert to help attract newcomers. This is why the long form of the tradition is so important. It makes clear that AA can and should engage in advertising, but that that advertising should not be sensationalist. This is the difference between bylines that say "If you have a drinking problem, we can help" and "GUARANTEED RESULTS! THE BEST RECOVERY PROGRAMME!" AA does advertise and guidance exists in our service material to give us suggestions. So perhaps the question is not so much, "should we advertise to newcomers?", rather "why are we not advertising to newcomers?"
Maintaining personal anonymity is good for us. Most of us would agree that many members struggle with a strong ego and low self-esteem, especially in the beginning. The mind tries to compensate for this low self-esteem by bolstering the ego. A kind of self-defence mechanism. Our feelings about ourselves are so fragile that any suggestion that we are less that ideal brings the ego racing to the rescue. This kind of reaction is common in AA as it is in the rest of the population, perhaps even more so. While the ego is trying to defend us, it tends to take control. Anything that bolsters the ego may be especially risky for us. For non-alcoholics the outcomes can be less that ideal, but for us they can be fatal. So anything that restricts or reduces the impact of the ego is crucial to us in AA. This is one of the reasons why anonymity, a true act of humility, is so important.
Another of the reasons is to help to protect the image of AA. It's an unfortunate fact that many people who come to AA don't make it to long term recovery. Even members who have been sober many years are still vulnerable to relapse. If these people were in the public eye, a relapse could do a great deal of damage to the image of AA and give the impression that AA doesn't work - something we know not to be true for everyone.
Maintaining personal anonymity is also good for others. I, like many other newcomers, took a great deal of comfort from the knowledge that my involvement with AA (in the early days) was a private matter, that my membership or attendance would not be made public. This privacy creates a reassuring environment for newer members.
It's important that we don't get anonymity confused with privacy. I recall an occasion when we couldn't get into our venue at my old home group. Someone who lived nearby suggested meeting at their home. I, being quite new at the time, remarked that we shouldn't because it would risk breaking the anonymity tradition. I was grateful to the member who kindly corrected me and told me of the difference between anonymity and privacy. That anonymity it for the public level and that choosing privacy within AA was a personal choice. Dr. Bob was quite emphatic about this. These are the words of Warren C from Cleveland, circa 1940:
“He [Dr. Bob] said there were two ways to break the anonymity Tradition: (1) by giving your name at the public level of press or radio; (2) by being so anonymous that you can’t be reached by other drunks.”
Total anonymity makes us less effective, not more. While it is certainly a personal choice, many AA members choose to let their friends and family know about their membership of AA. Consequently, many of us have been able to act as referral points to extended friends and family and so offer the opportunity of recovery.